Archive for March, 2009

I have lost my confidence in dating

Tuesday, March 31st, 2009

If you are not naturally confident around new people you can often find that you hide your real personality, but in the same way you don’t want to be over confident and give people the wrong impression that you are cocky or arrogant. It’s about striking a balance to let the real you shine through. The same applies to online dating, we recommend you message people on kissinggates.com that you share common interests with.

What to do on a first date?

Monday, March 30th, 2009

A first date can be very scary – people often say “just be yourself” which can make you question who you are? This is defiantly not the best frame of mind to be in just before a date!

The most important thing to remember is you have to shoot to score and a few nerves are good, remember dating is a simple game of numbers. The more dates you go on the more chance you have of finding someone. Turning online makes it easier and allows you to meet new people regularly. To find yourself a date today sign up to Kissinggates.com for free.

Rowan Atkinson offers some practical dating advice

Kinky farmers turn online

Sunday, March 29th, 2009

Farmers looking for a roll around in their haystacks are turning to Ruralerotica.com an adult rural dating site.

The site was formed in late 2008 to help single farmers find someone as dirty as their tractors. This discrete, safe service is free to register and open to anyone looking for adult fun. Warning this is an Adult 18+ website.

Rural pubs closing because UK economy is struggling

Saturday, March 28th, 2009

The press keep telling us we’re in a recession, credit crunch warning, don’t spend your money & stay in! This is having a tragic affect on our rural pubs which seem to be closing left right and centre making it really hard to find your perfect rural partner and destroying an English culture!

Rural pubs closing

Rural pubs closing

Don’t despair though kissinggates.com are matching up couples each week. In fact February was a record month for kissinggates.com with 25 matched couples that we know of! Now is the time to wipe the mud from your computer screen and turn online to find yourself a rural date! To help you kissinggates.com are offering members excellent deals throughout March, so join up today.

We are sure you will find a perfect rural date online, lets just hope your local pub is still open to take your new date to!

Rural broadband access improves for farmers

Friday, March 27th, 2009
Broadband access across the whole of the UK, especially in rural areas, is one of the Government’s top priorities. Over the past few years there has been progress towards providing access to affordable broadband to every community in England from a competitive market.What does this mean to farmers?
  • Improved communications via email.
  • Access to up to the minute pricing for grain and currencies
  • A route to market for farm shops and selling produce
  • And of course an opportunity to find love!

Now the infrastructure is in place (or getting there) farmers can find use the Internet for more than just email. Farmers can meet like-minded singles to chat to and eventually date. Kissinggates.com was founded in 2008 and has quickly established as the home of rural dating.

Looking for a farmer boyfriend, why not start a dating website?

Thursday, March 26th, 2009
James Vestbirk, founder of Kissinggates.com, has been able to prove how online dating can help farmers find a partner. Hear his story from the ‘horses mouth:’
Farmer finds happiness

Farmer finds happiness

“I came home to work on the farm after University, a year on I have found myself launching Kissing Gates after realising how hard it is to meet new people in close-knit rural communities, particularly single girls! After just five weeks I have found myself at the beginning of a fantastic relationship – Emma and I met on Kissinggates.com – we exchanged a few messages and then I took her for a meal, we have been on several dates since then and I just can’t believe how much we have in common! Although it is early days things are looking good, I will keep you posted!”

Where to go on your first date?

Saturday, March 21st, 2009
  • Nice bar or cosy pub for a drink (not your local).
  • Restaurant
  • Café
  • Picnic at the coast or in a meadow


The dont's of dating

Saturday, March 21st, 2009
  • Give away too much about yourself at the start. Revealing your inner most secrets about an obsession with a Massey Ferguson in your first message may scare some people away!
  • Get too drunk on the date, remember it’s not a hunt ball!
  • Ignore your personal safety when dating.
  • Don’t give out personal information like home phone numbers and addresses on a first date. Keep them until you are sure of your safety.


The Do's of dating

Saturday, March 21st, 2009
  • Clean yourself up, don’t arrive on a date looking like you have just come straight off the tractor or from the stables (even if you have!).
  • Be punctual, remember there is fashionably late and awkwardly late!
  • Flatter and compliment your date on the way they look and the things they wear. People tend to go to a lot of effort on a date and a sincere compliment can go a long way.
  • Be interested and interesting: “I was never bored because I was never being boring” said the ultimate countryside lover!
  • Only meet people you genuinely think you are compatible with; if you like fishing, shooting, horse riding and so does the interested party then that is a great place to start.

See more more information at Kissinggates.com

Welcome!

Saturday, March 21st, 2009

Welcome to the Kissinggates.com blog.

We launched the site Kissinggates.com back in October 2008 to fill a niche for a rural dating site. The site has gone from strength to strength with 1000’s of members across the UK. This blog will keep you updated on all things rural and dating. Whats hot and not and some great tips and fun for dating generally.

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