Archive for the ‘Dating Tips’ Category

Jeans or Cords? Jumper or Shirt?

Friday, December 11th, 2009

What to wear on a first, second or third date?

It is important you feel comfortable, it is nice to arrive on a date dressed up a little, but that does not mean you have to wear a suit if you never wear a suit! We would recommend you don’t wear something straight off a tractor, but really there are no rules.

Psychologists can probably tell you some underlying reason for wearing X over Y but we just think it’s nice to dress up a little and for the venue. 

Is a Tomato an Aphrodisiac?

Thursday, December 10th, 2009

When the tomato arrived into Europe it was slow to catch on, the red colour understandably became associated with poison. However the French and Italians dismissed this myth and the tomato became known as poma amoris or pomme d’amour. It subsequently became known as a symbol for the aphrodisiac qualities of food and became popular across Europe.

For casual adult fun why not check our naughty adult sister site RuralErotica.com.

What does Google predict Farmers want?

Monday, December 7th, 2009
Google predicts Farmer's search for - "farmer wants a wife"

Google predicts Farmer's search for - "farmer wants a wife"

How old do you have to be to use an Online Dating Site?

Friday, November 27th, 2009

Online dating on Kissinggates.com is for 18+ adults only, this is a very important rule, however there is no upper age limit on KissingGates.com. A large percentage of our registrations are over 40 and reaching a current ceiling of 72 years old, so it is never to old to find a partner. Whatever your background or past – married or widowed - you can register free and browse thousands of members.

Saturday date ideas

Saturday, November 21st, 2009

Saturday is a dating day (as is Thursday, Friday and Sunday), but the great thing about a Saturday date is that there are so many things you can do at the weekend.

A first date can say a lot about your personality, someone who is crazy may want to go on a bungee jump, whereas someone more reserved might like to go for a drink or walk. A drink or meal is a traditional and safe option, but if that is not for you, do not conform to  dating etiquette.

It is an important expression of your personality- the prospective boyfriend or girlfriend will find out your personality eventually so just be natural.

Essentially there is no simple answer on where to go, just do what feels right but I would recommend a drink in a place where you wont run into friends and if you don’t succeed this time register on Kissinggates.com to find a new date for next Saturday!

Where to find a farmer date

Friday, November 20th, 2009

There has been a recent increase in single women registering on Kissinggates.com who are looking for a farmer as a partner and husband. So how do you find a farmer husband? 

  • Traditionally you would go to a young farmers or hunt ball, but there are only a handful of these seasonal balls.
  • The local pub at the right time of year could be full of single farmers, but tragically a lot of these pubs are now closing.
  • A county show used to be full of farmers, but the traditional county shows are being replaced by trade specific shows such as Cereals and Lamma which are more industry focussed.

To find the elusive farmer many women are registering on Kissinggates.com, in the last 30 days 67% of registrations were female

To find yourself a farmer turn online today, registration is free and allows you to search our database of 1000’s.

Farmer found a partner

Thursday, November 19th, 2009

We just received another heartfelt thanks from a successful match who met on Kissinggates.com;

Just have to thank you for facilitating the most beautiful relationship imaginable- Phil and I  are both very earthy and a little quirky, looking for someone with an honest and kind heart and so you can imagine we were really excited to discover each other…We are very excited about this new chapter as we were both sceptical about meeting through the internet but were pleasantly surprised when our searches made this incredible connection!

We would like to thank you for providing the best venue in town for creating smiley faces and warm hearts! x

We would like to wish you both well and hope this story encourages more people to register and find happiness.

Going for a date on the beach

Tuesday, June 2nd, 2009

The weather is fantastic at the moment, so what better to time to take a partner or potential partner for a walk on the beach! Things to try;

  • Take a dog – nothing more romantic and gives the date another purpose.
  • Skim stones at the sea edge
  • Buy a 99 ice cream
  • Find some animals in a rock pool
  • Fish for crabs
  • Have fun!

Good luck and register today at kissinggates.com to find a date fit for the beach!

'Use it or lose it' land laws in South Africa.

Saturday, April 25th, 2009

Land Affairs Minister Lulu Xingwana and Veronica Moos, whose farm was recently seized due to the South African “use it or lose it” land distribution policy have reached a temporary agreement – Moos will be allowed time to form a case and access to the farm, Yzerfontein near Bapsfontein, during the day.

Moos explained to the court the difficulties she encountered in making the farm productive and economically viable as she did not get any support from government. She also experienced several robberies on the farm and therefore did not feel safe to sleep on the farm until she found a couple to stay at the farm, rent free and Moos cordoned off a room for herself.

However perhaps her difficulties and certainly security would have been improved if she had found a partner. It is very difficult to find a partner when you live in a rural community but this could have been made easier had moos taken advantage of a new rural dating website designed for people from rural communities. Kissinggates.co.za is free to register and growing by the day.

Flowers on a first date?

Friday, April 24th, 2009

It is a classic romantic gesture to give someone flowers. On a first date it can go two ways;

  1. She is euphoric and absolutely loves them and you have earned some bonus points at the start of a date.
  2. She thinks you are too cheesy and predictable.

It really is a judgement call, if you have been exchanging quite loved up messages via kissinggates.com then it may be appropriate but if it has been a bit more laid back then maybe it would be better leaving it to a second or third date.

Every girl is different, it is important not to pigeon hole them and think ‘girls like flowers, I will give her flowers.’ If you leave it a couple of dates you can find out what type of flowers they like and you can get something even more targetted which will really cement your work so far.

Good luck in which ever option you choose, remember you have to shoot to score.