Some background:

William (44) had separated from his wife two years ago and was ready to start dating again so he signed up to kissinggates.com having read an article in the Farmers Guardian about rural dating.

William is a gardener from rural Lincolnshire and not a savvy Internet user, however he quickly got to grips with the easy to use dating website and began messaging local singletons. William is now at the stage where he is meeting new women for dates and drinks. The problem he has, which is why he contacted us, is that he has now been on several dates with four different women and is still messaging all of them.

What should he do?

Firstly well done for getting yourself out there William, good on you. It is a typical situation of waiting years for a bus and four arrive at once. If you have just been on a date or two it could be to early to tell who you are drawn to. We would recommend applying the three date rule and waiting untill date three before making a decision.You should not feel bad about dating more than one person so early on in the dating process, however once you have found someone you will intuitively know when to stop meeting new people and we look forward to an invite to the wedding! Good Luck

Waiting three dates before making a decision on whether a potential date is a potential partner.

What does Kissinggates.com think?

We think there is no such thing as a “rule” towards dating, it is very much a personal thing. Register today to find yourself a partner before chistmas.